That Time of Year

In independent retail businesses, 

particularly the small business owned and operated by one person,

the Christmas season is the

 "make it, or break it" 

time of the year.

We work tremendously hard for 10 months, 

and then in the 2 months prior to Christmas, 

we can do the same amount of sales we did in the previous 10.

Knowing this to be true,

these two months become very significant to our well being.

Did I say, "very significant"?

Okay, truthfully, these two months are way too important.

They can be stressful and frustrating and difficult and back breaking.

They can make you lose sleep and work in your shop till midnight, only to drive 20 miles home in a blowing, blinding snow storm, sleep a few hours and go out and scrape the 7" of snow off your car, drive back to work, and do it all over again.

They can disrupt your sleep, your attitude, your appetite and your general ability to communicate with others without taking a bite out of them.

No one moves fast enough, cares enough, has the sense of your need to complete a task,

or apparently any idea of the urgency with which you seemingly must live through these weeks.

The world should be in "fast forward" with you

but

t h e y 

a r e 

i n

s   l   o   w

m    o    t    i    o    n

Okay . . .

I'm a crazy woman when it comes to my 

"one woman show"

of holiday retail.

The shop must be turned inside out

redecorated

holiday-ized

and

it should

(in my mind)

be found to be one of the very nicest and most loved shopping spots in

the front range.

Now,

appearing in 

Victoria Magazine 

last winter certainly raised the bar.

Winning

  5280 Magazine's

Editor's Choice Award as

Top of the Town

in

 Home Accessories category

two successive years,

added to my stress to impress.

Winning 

Esprit 'd Noel's 

Christmas House Tour

to benefit Children's Hospital,

and appearing in 

Colorado Homes and Lifestyle

this month

was another beautiful compliment for

 PATINA ANTIQUES.

It also adds the challenge of surpassing last year's grandeur

 when we decorate for the tour

THIS YEAR

and try to do everything with a fresh new eye

to captivate our customers' imagination.

When the magazine spread appears on the news stand

the week of your annual

CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE,

(to which you've invited several thousand of your best customers,

 friends, family, competiton and hottest critics),

you can begin to tremble and shake

with the need to keep

 "out doing"

 what you've done in the past.

Your dreams and conversation can be peppered with phrases like, 

"over the top" and "outside the box" and "killer"

 and well . . . 

you get my drift . . .

But,

this year

I'm taking it a little easy.

I'm trusting that what I can do will be accomplished,

and what I can't do - only I will know about.

That there really is no amount of stress and frustration that can improve

 who I am

or

what I do.

I'll say my prayers and do my best

 and count on my creativity and my blessings

 to spring from God.

I will plan my work

and

work my plan

and ask that it's blessed.

Perhaps this is a sign of age - (hopefully maturity)?

I will take time for my friends

have a cup of coffee

smile at strangers

return my shopping cart

have my grandchildren spend the night 

take donuts to the guys at Grease Monkey

leave a gift on my neighbors doorstep

bake cookies

have a Christmas party

and

 trust!